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Is he doing it again?

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mummy2freddybear · 28/07/2023 19:05

Hello, been with my partner 2.5 years, a year into the relationship he told me he'd been sexting an ex girlfriend, he told me this as I'd received a message off the girl's boyfriend wanting to tell me what was going on and he wanted to get in there first.
I was devastated but leading up to him telling me I'd had a feeling something wasn't right, he always been so affectionate and messaged me all the time but it had suddenly all changed a few months before which had coincided with him moving into my house.

Once he'd told me he was so remorseful and promised me it would never happen again and I fell for it.

Fast forward a year and a half, we've bought a house together and I'm now pregnant which was unexpected.
He started going to the gym in the last few month or so and things between us really aren't great.
When he was talking to the girl it was all over snap chat,which he never posts on but over the last couple of weeks he's suddenly started posting a lot on his story about going to the gym and other random crap. So now Im really starting to think he's up to no good again and I feel like a right mug!

Do you think I'm being paranoid or do you think something is actually going on?

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Stratocumulus · 28/07/2023 19:28

I’m sorry but you clearly don’t trust him. You probably never will. Who knows?

Your gut is telling you something so listen to the inner voice.

Maybe you should get a contingency plan in place because I think you’ve got some big and difficult decisions to make given you’ve expressed that your relationship isn’t too good at present. Im so sorry you’re having to deal with this emotional insecurity at this vulnerable time. Good luck OP.

KajsaKavat · 28/07/2023 19:31

It does sound like he is wanting attention from someone

mummy2freddybear · 28/07/2023 20:17

@Stratocumulus no I don't think I do trust him, but I don't know how I can prove it.
I really really don't know what to do!

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mummy2freddybear · 28/07/2023 20:18

@KajsaKavat my thoughts exactly 😕

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