Told OW I didnt care about her feelings.

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The day before yesterday I posted that my ex slept with his friend and it wasn't a one-time thing - They'd been sleeping together a few months. OW has since told a small group of my friends that I made Ex break up with her and now she's struggling because she's "pregnant" and how its too far along to terminate it now. She got someone to drive her to my flat and wait then bombarded me as I left for a morning jog.

She talked a while and said how sorry she was but I didnt have to make Ex cut her off. When I told her I'd blocked my ex on everything she called me a petty bitch and said I ruined everything. She had an almost full on meltdown and I calmly responded with "I dont care about your feelings right now. Nor will I ever, leave me alone"

At this point Im ready just to pack my things and leave to stay with my Mum for a while in my old bedroom. I'm so done with this drama

Hang on…..she got together with a man in the full knowledge that he was treating his partner like shit and now she’s surprised he’s treating her like shit????? Righto 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Either way, he sounds vile and you are both better off without him.

Do it but before you go report her to Police for harassment and send a strong message for her to kindly fuck right off. I'd make him put the call in.

Yes a nice break and seeing your Mum will be nice for you. Good in you dispatching both cheating ex and his OW so swiftly. You deserve so much better.

Any idea when this supposed pregnancy came about? Has she only announced it since your ex stopped contact with her or did he know before you found out? If she is saying it's too late to terminate then that suggests she is over 24 weeks.

You did the right thing OP. Cut this drama out of your life and leave them to it. Bigger and better things will come along for you x

I read your other post. Where his excuse for cheating was he wanted to help her get revenge on her ex??

Well done being so calm. How DARE she she try and blame anything on you?! What did she think would happen, he'd run off into the sunset with her once he broke up with you?

Has she no shame?

I feel sorry for the baby involved however that is her and his problem.

I cannot believe she called you petty for blocking your cheating ex!

This. She's quite bonkers.

She knows she's been a part of blowing up your relationship with your ex, but she is upset that you've had a part (not really, but in her mind you have) in blowing up hers?!

I'd not go anywhere if I were you but then I'm a stubborn cow.

Have a few token phrases ready for anyone that comes looking for sympathy:

"I'm sorry - you want me to feel sorry for you because my boyfriend/partner dumped you after I discovered he was cheating on me?"

and

"Other than that 'baby', I'm the only one here that hasn't done anything wrong!"

Good riddance, hold your head up high lady. Play silly games, get silly prizes springs to mind! Good luck, you don't deserve this and I'm so sorry you're having to cope with this. I like to think that cheaters never prosper x

So you found out, chucked him out and he broke off with her. So she now realised he only wanted a fling with her and now that you two are no longer together, he still doesn't want to be with her. Ouch. Not your problem.

She sounds like a nutter. Block her too.

So he was having an affair with her and now she's blaming you because he's ended it?

You owe her nothing. I think what you did say was relatively tame given the circumstances!