Hi,
I can’t give a huge amount of detail but just after a handhold and maybe some reassurances that I’ve done the right thing!
DM was married to someone who was abusive (controlling/emotional) to me as a teenager as well as a physical assault/instances of the same to my sibling who was still classed as a child and they ramped that up to stalking of her once she tried to split from them.
Through my work, I have recently came face to face with them out of the blue, doing a volunteer role for my employers that someone of their past shouldn’t be doing and where they will have access to vulnerable people and children.
They recognised me but didn’t try and interact, just rushed past me, head down. Said past was reported at the time but sadly never really acted upon so it wouldn’t have shown up anywhere. I wasn’t aware of what action was/wasn’t taken until recently.
I have raised the alarm so to speak and hopefully action will be taken but now I’m sitting doubting myself and worrying about repercussions, especially with their stalking past, should action be taken against them.
Their son also works for my employers so I’m also concerned about his potential to possibly try and find out information to give to them. Is there a way I could try and stop this do you think or safeguard myself? Said son also works in the same department as my DH, albeit from a different location, so there may be times they are pulled together to work on something. My DH isn’t sure he should say anything to his bosses whereas I think he possibly should?
Again, sorry for limited information but just looking for support please; feeling so many emotions as I’ve never seen them since it all happened. Thank you