How do I approach this with a guy

[sararose93]

So I have liked the guy for a couple of months I got pretty hurt 6 month ago and I'm starting again. I confinded in a friend about this guy and she agreed he's so lovely kind and sweet. He always makes effort to approach me and chat.

We all went out and my friend drunk told him I liked him and he was stunned said me really. She's so stunning. Which made me think how lovely.

We work together but I'm leaving soon. I didn't want to tell him until I had left. This morning he's came up to my friend and said does she really like me I just can't see it. And said he was really shy at this stuff.

I don't want to chase the guy tho because the last guy broke me and I begged pleaded. I'm so scared of getting hurt.

If he's shy how do I run with this I'm shy my self and lost all confidence from previous guy. (Who I am now over)

Any advice helpful. X

Well he knows you like him. He'd be pretty stupid to ask you out while you're a colleague.

Keep smiling and being encouraging and see if he does anything.

If not he's not for you x

^^ This,
send him a personal email address ( make up a gmail one) when you leave

Near to your last day I’d give him your number ‘as you’d like to stay in touch’. You’d like to think he’ll get in touch.

My personal experience of dating a colleague was absolutely fine and no drama at all. (We eventually both left to work at separate companies which we did prefer but it wasn't a drama at the time) oh and now we are married with a DS.

If your leaving soon anyway I'd just go for it

You’ve done more than enough. If he wants to ask you out he will