Long story short I left ex DP due to controlling and borderline EA behaviour. We have young DC.
He’s moved out but we tried to see if things would work out, he’s been on his best behaviour and I was struggling alone and stupidly hoped he’d worked on himself.
His birthday, I’d been up ill the night before but was feeling ok, just tired. I am strapped for cash but ordered an expensive takeaway and got him a good bottle of wine. He said he’d open it the next day (his bday) as it was so special. Lovely evening, went to bed, I didn’t feel he was that aroused so things tailed off and we went to sleep.
Woke up in the early hours and he was downstairs, he then came to bed and sat on his phone. I knew there was something wrong… The next morning wouldn’t cuddle and grunted when I said happy birthday. He moaned he didn’t like the peanut butter with his breakfast in bed and was off all day.
turned out he’d opened the special wine in the early hours and had a glass.
He said he’d stay over again that night if I could make more of an effort… I was really angry by this point and glad when he left.
He left the wine and I assumed he didn’t want it. This was at the weekend. I had a glass last night, cue him coming round today, checking it, having a go at me and calling me a glutton in front of kids and storming out.
I feel like I’m losing my mind.