Every time any conflict or situation occurs I feel like my husband spends more time picking apart what I could of done better or what I did, how I reacted or making it about him.
I just don't know what to do but it's really getting me down.
If my husband has any conflict from colleagues or friends I'm there like a warrior ready to validate him, to help him figure stuff out or being so angry and protective of him for him with him. Btw I'm not saying I go round in the outside world like this!
It's more subtle then just not taking my side but always makes me doubt myself and it's really getting me down.
Has anyone had these issues?
I've tried bring it up but he just gets defensive and or disregard what I'm saying and plain just say "I do defend you". But it's like you just don't. I feel so alone anytime something like this happens. He even does it with the kids.
Please help!