Partner treating me rubbish

[Lonewoman]

Please tell me if I am in the wrong! I have put a little weight on recently, have had to have glasses and am having more blood tests as I have low hormones. My partner is saying cos of all this I have let myself go and that I am wanting things to be wrong with me and calling me a hypochondriac! Basically saying I am lying about my health conditions to get sympathy. What do I do? Everytime I tell him he is wrong and should be more supportive he has a go at me and says I'm lying!

Dump him?

That’s awful op.

This doesn’t sound like a loving relationship- over time we all put on weight and probably need glasses ( and hearing aids) seems to me he is looking for an excuse to leave you
Not believing medical diagnosis - also not good
Time to leave him - and meet someone who likes you as you are and supports your health life is too short to be treated like this
Dont look to him to give you the support you need - he is not capable of giving it

Hi @Lonewoman i'm so sorry your partner is treating you this way.
Sometimes when people close to me don't support me it hurts but it strengthens me. Everytime he doesn't support you, you get stronger. Focus on you and your health xx

Let him go. Right out the fucking door. You deserve better than him, op. Most people wouldn't speak to a stranger that way, never mind their partner.