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I hate myself sometimes

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asecretslob · 22/07/2023 20:53

I suffer with ADHD normally I can manage most aspects of it but sometimes tidiness of my place lets me down

I normally hide this side of me quite well or at least do my best

I have had a horrific week at work and have let things slip I feel completely overwhelmed with trying to do things to help other people and let my place get really messy

My partner of nearly two years let himself into my place and is now not talking to me over it
He was meant to be somewhere else so I thought I had the weekend to sort it out

It's horrible feeling so overwhelmed and he is making me feel so bad

He literally told me he was going somewhere else but turned up because he said I was being off with him

OP posts:
Alcemeg · 23/07/2023 00:45

asecretslob · 22/07/2023 22:09

Well yes now he is saying that my reaction was suspicious because I was flustered and emotional

Suspicious?!?!?!

Do you need this bullshit in your life?! X

FedUpMumof10YO · 23/07/2023 06:36

Take his keys back !!!

How dare he. If he was any kind of boyf he'd understand what a horrendous week you've had and tidy up for you.

Do not move in with him - you'll live on eggshells.

asecretslob · 24/07/2023 09:44

He is still sulking about it

Because I wasn't warm and welcoming

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Chelsea543 · 24/07/2023 11:56

Ditch him and get the cat!
Honestly how could you ever live with this person? I'd be asking for my key back too. I have ADHD and sometimes I make such a mess and hate myself for it too. But the reality is life is hard and even the most organised people can struggle sometimes - especially if you're working loads or staying at his and barely at home.
I'd tell him he either needs to be more understanding about the reality of ADHD or he can go.

CharlotteCollinsneeLucas · 24/07/2023 15:47

Turning up uninvited, criticising you, accusing you of hiding something from him... This one's no good, OP. Throw him back.

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