I was seeing a guy who purported to be separated but I found out he still lives with his wife. He gave me a story about not being able to afford to move out and they're just housemates and have their own rooms and I was welcome to go and look for myself. I didn't I stopped seeing him.
Today I got a bizarre text from him saying "I hope you are joking". I replied and said I think you have sent this to the wrong person, and then I saw a missed call from him so I rang back. This is a mistake.
He was panicking his head off, as someone had sent a message to his (supposedly estranged) wife and he blamed me. He was gabbling, out of control panicking and talking nonsense, and was out of breath. I don't know her email address, WhatsApp, number, nothing. I have sent him this:
"I don't know your "housemate's" number, email address or have any interest in communication with her whatsoever. I am far too busy working and with my own life and business for this sort of caper. The panicked gabbling and accusations are concerning. This bizarre exchange tells me you're far more involved and enmeshed than you make out. Please don't involve me in your family dramas. I've zero interest. Also it is not the sort of thing I would pass the time doing in the hospital waiting area, thanks, I'd rather read the autotrader. Give me some credit for having some sense. I hope you sort it out"
It's absolutely nuts!
But why, just why? I also found he has my number in his phone under "Liam". What do you reckon??
I then had another message" so sorry xxxx"
Obviously I'm having no more contact but just why ffs???