we have been together for 21 years and have two kids aged 14 and 18.
hubby has always liked a drink but over the years it’s become worse. He comes home from work and spends his evening in a seperate room to everyone else. He gets through 10-12 cans of beer in a 4 hour period. As a result he has put on a lot of weight. He snores horrifically to the point where he keeps the house awake if he’s gone to sleep first, I told him that his snoring was Making me Ill. He went to GP and was referred to a sleep clinic. He was diagnosed with Sleep apnoea and given a CPAP machine. He won’t use it as he finds it uncomfortable.
He works hard and isn’t a horrible drunk. However I’m finding myself starting to hate him. The sleep thing is a major issue, he will come to bed pissed wanting to get his leg over and it makes me feel physically sick. It’s destroying our relationship. He’s a good man. When I bring it up he says it’s his way to relax. I don’t know how much longer I can cope with it. He will stop for a few days when I lose my patience over it then it starts again.
Aside from this he’s a good man. He works hard, he’s a good dad. He would do anything to help.
he‘s my best friend but I am no longer in love with him.