Hi, my dad has always been an aggressive person, who verbally and physically abused my mum. She stayed with him even though I begged her to leave when I was in my teens. I left home as soon as I could cos she wouldn't, she stayed. I feel awkward around my dad, we have nothing to talk about. After over 30 years they're divorced cos he had an affair and he's still with that woman now, 3 years on. He talks about himself and how amazing his new life is and all the plans he's making. I really do not care, actually it offends me given the life he gave me nd mum growing up! I don't have any time for him at all. He only gets in touch to see his grandchild and actually if it wasn't for her I don't think I would see him at all. He hasn't seen her for 3 months now though and to be honest that isn't good enough. If he reallt cared he would see her more given he lives 10 minutes away. He will say I haven't reached out and turn it back on me cos that's how he rolls. How do I tell a man, who can't be reasoned with how I really feel?