I've been on a few dates now with a guy aged nearly 60. We've had a good few telephone conversations, and I'm noticing that he always talks about himself first, I'd also ask him how he's been, throw in a few questions. When he's finished he'll say '"so now you've gotten all the news", goes silent, and so I say a little about myself, he stays silent most of this time, doesn't really ask about my family etc., so I tend not to go on as long as him. It's starting to irritate me a little. I don't know whether it's lack of interest or self-absorption. Any ideas?