Hey, looking for abit of advice.
My DH is not happy with my ex DS dad attending school performances with me present.
Although he has his reasons, I feel like this is rather controlling and lacks trust!
I feel like I am stuck in the middle. I feel that's it's only right my DS dad should be allowed to attend school performances etc. I have expressed as much but I get my head bitten off, and told that it should be my DH attending as he has raised him and taught him to be a respectful young lad etc. (we've been together 5 years & my son is 11)
So I offered for him to go, but he couldn't give me a definite answer because of work, I said if you cannot commit then I'm going to give the other ticket to his dad, which he was not happy about.
I ended up going on my own with a spare ticket as he couldn't make it and I felt too uncomfortable to ask my DS dad for fear of the agruments later.
Opinions please guys.