This is a friend I've known decades. I'm not sure now if her behaviour's always been like this or got worse. For background, she's married no dcs, I'm a lone parent. We live some distance apart. She moved house a couple of years ago and was texting me constantly, leaning on me, and that was fine. Now I'm trying to move she's gone AWOL and hasn't even texted. Likewise recently she had a health scare, she was messaging me all the time and I was supportive.
But I've realised that it's a one way street- she wants me to be there when she needs a friend to lean on, but won't do that in return. I feel really let down. I dont think I can bring it up with her though. At the same time now I'm questioning our friendship, if it can even be called that. Any advice?