A female relation in the extended family has moved in with her new boyfriend. Relationship is (supposedly) less than 6 months. It was 6 months ago that she split up with her ex. She and ex have a 2-3 year old, who they have every second week.
I was surprised and don't think it is a good idea. I think that you should wait until you know the new relationship is stable before even introducing a new boy/girlfriend, let alone moving in together. For the sake of the child.
It is absolutely none of my business and i would never dream of saying anything to her.
I guess it is on my mind as me and dh were going through a rocky patch and talking about splitting up. I was adamant that if he got a new girlfriend he would not introduce her to our child, and I wouldn't do the same. Until a suitable time had passed.
I have witnessed one person in our circle who was a "second daddy", then the couple split up and the child went on to have a "third daddy". Sometimes that is just life, but if it can minimised, so much the better.
What are your experiences or views?