Sadly our older children have discovered husband has been using dodgy dating sites. Since I confronted him he has admitted having an account but shows no accountability, conscience, nothing and carries on as though nothing has happened. When I told him I wanted a divorce he just said he doesn't! Children are obviously angry and won't speak to him . Our relationship has been in decline for a long time and I have stayed to keep a roof over the the kids heads. I know i cannot stay with someone who is clearly looking for something else, who lies and shows such little respect for me but I am angry that it means selling our family home, upheaving the kids when they have done nothing wrong. He claims he cannot afford to support himself and wants a 50/50 split on the house, yet Im expected to house and support our youngest children on my half and wage. Im feeling completely overwhelmed by the journey to divorce and I know I wont be alone in this so would welcome any advice.