I’ve known my ex for three years however we have only started getting serious the past 8 months. he was very jealous when together constantly accusing me of being unfaithful and asking me to send him photos of where I was and who with. He would call me names like a slag, a hoe his favourite is bitch. If I didn’t do something he liked or if I was to refuse to do something like show him where I was or if I posted a photo online that he felt was revealing I would be blocked for days or weeks or he would purposely read my messages and ignore me. I would pour my heart out begging him to forgive me and that I was sorry he would open my messages all day long and just ignore me on the odd exception he would reply with a laughing face.
We would get along great mostly when we was together he was still very jealous I couldn’t go on my phone he made that clear. He started telling me that he loves me and that he has only kissed me and that no other girl could ever kiss his lips the only girls who kisses is me and his nieces. After being blocked unblocked for months I started to become very tired of the games and I started to see through him and started to call him out which he really did not like. It turned out everything he accused me of doing all the time it was infact him doing. I found out he had been speaking to multiple people and he was seeing someone else and telling her that he loved her ect.
i decided to work on my self and to love my self again. I started to go to the gym and putting more time into starting up my buisness. Im not going to lie though apart of me really does love him but I could never allow my self to be treated that way again. my ex keeps making new Facebook profiles, I’ll block and a new one appears he’s not even adding any friends hardly on them he literally adds the same friend on each profile and his brother and that’s it. He’ll sit on this Facebook account and use it aswell I really don’t see the point in this. Every time I would block a new account of his, a fake account would then message me. The first came from an account asking if I missed them, I then blocked this account. The second messaged me saying “hi I’m new to Facebook you’re gorgeous” i looked at the following and it was only following my ex boyfriends ex girlfriend from before me. I blocked this account and then the same again happens, the fake accounts don’t even send me friend requests they just go straight to my spam messages.
I would say in total my ex has made 15+ new Facebook accounts that I have blocked in the past 3/4 months && around 10+ fake accounts messaged me in a month. I feel like I’m going crazy, i don’t know if it’s because I still have feelings for him or if I’m just telling my self all this in my head and being delusional or if he is actually doing all this. I really don’t see the need for anyone else to do it & the time always adds up with me blocking his new facebooks a fake account will message me in under 24 hours.
I stupidly decided to unblock him yesterday and send him a friend request. I don’t even know why because I have been so good with not breaking no contact, I’ve been so good at blocking him and moving on with my day. So I made the stupid mistake of sending him a friend request and he blocked me. Which I don’t understand at all, which now makes me think maybe I have been delusional and made it all up 🤣. any advice would be great and I can’t delete my social media as I advertise my buisness from my social media platform so it isn’t the best idea right not as I’m slowly building a clientele base.