Would you think he's lying

[Lily189]

Hi everyone
My bf told me a couple of days ago that a girl text him at 3am on facebook asking what he was doing then text saying wrong perosn and blocked him off Facebook he said it was 2 weeks ago and he just deleted the message after he read it
We've been together 7 years and 2 years into our relationship before we lived together my bf told me he was drinking with his friend then he text me later saying he waw away to bed but he was partying and this girl was there and I waw told they were very close she had he legs over him they looked like they were gonng hook up and everyone else left and she stayed
When I asked him he first lied and siad said it wasnt true then eventually he said they did flirt but nothing happened and she wasn't alone with him
My heads all over the place and im pregnant with our third baby just can't help over thinking why would she block him if he never replied?
Why would he delete the messages if that's all that was said?
I would have took it better if I could have seen the texts and seen he didn't reply to her
We've also been having alot of silly arguments lately started by him now I'm wondering if that's all from him feeling guilty because there was more to it
What would you think
Ano if I bring it up again he'll just day I'm paranoid and nothing happened
But I just can't help but think somethings up

It definitely seems like there is more to it. I mean he did admit he flirted with her and for me that's already bad.
You're in a really tough situation and I don't think there is one right path to choose, but it doesn't sound good.

Why do you think he told you about the FB message?

I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship like this. AT ALL.

If you have to ask "is he lying?" in my mind its over anyway.

He’s told you so when she contacts you in anger at being messed about by your cheating partner he can call her a crazy bitch and you will believe him.

He is getting his cheaters ducks in a row.

He needs to get therapy to address his need for attention and/or his commitment issues. Of course he's lying and you know it. Focus on making sure you have a way out should you get fed up with this treatment eventually.

Is it the same woman both times?

if I bring it up again he'll just day I'm paranoid and nothing happened

You don't trust him and he doesn't care about your feelings. This isn't a relationship.