Help me stay strong

[SalamanderSally]

Kicked 'D'P out a little while ago and need to stay strong. Had a great time winging his stuff out of the house but know he will try to worm his way back in

I don't want him back at all. His OW has shared lots of messages between them and it clearly shows he's been having an affair for a while.

Wasted years of my life on this piece of shit

Do you have children together?

If not, block him. Delete his number, delete all texts and block him on all social media. Rip the plaster off, it will hurt but no contact is absolutely the way to go.

You deserve so, so much better than this man. Do you have real life support?

No children together - have blocked on everything so he's taken to post notes through my door...hopefully police will take me seriously.

There's history of DV

Definitely alert police to it and keep all notes as proof. My sister in very similar situation and at first police couldn't do much but she kept logs of all happening and now in process of getting non molestation order. Just pls keep any proof. Hope all goes well for you

Keep a log of everything and like a PP said, notify the police.

I would also encourage you to contact Woman’s Aid x