Basically we are separated, living in the same house with DC's for now. He is a narcissistic twat who doesn't get the true reality and is continuing to get more angrier as I am mostly indifferent to him. I have put up clear boundaries and I have asked to be respected as a co-parent.
Anyhow something didn't please him lately to do with the DC and he got extremely angry with me, he was drinking prior to this. Firstly he was wrong with his accusation and secondly he has no right to speak to me as if I am little old wifey considering we are separated. I told him all of this. These outbursts are getting more common.
I am going through a death of a sibling and when I got mad I said not that you ever give a damn but I was having a bad day today. He said oh you always throw out the grief card. Part of what made me decide 100% it was over has been his reaction to my sibling's death, basically zero empathy, no support, making my life difficult.
I know everyone is going to say to get rid of him but I cannot get him out of the house too easily, it's his house too. Please give me any thoughts you may have on getting through this. I don't need this s**t when I am so heartbroken over my sibling.