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Feeling very stupid

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SalamanderSally · 10/07/2023 23:50

Hello people of MN - I've name changed for this as don't want it linked to other threads.

Just split from 'D'P as yet again he's cheated - I've taken him back so many times but this time I've had enough that I'm not even angry just so disappointed in myself for letting it happen...again.

The OW messaged me this evening to see why a message from me popped up on his phone and she saw...I said he's my partner why wouldn't I message him?

Anyway, turns out he's been seeing use both over the past few months, am not heartbroken but disappointed and waiting for the anger.

I really thought we had a future together Sad

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Jongleterre · 10/07/2023 23:54

You're not stupid.

You thought he would change. He hasn't.

Time to show him you deserve better.

Your loyalty and willingness to work things out are admirable but you've learnt a life lesson that some leopards won't change their spots and that you a good person who deserves to be treated with respect.

Hold your head high and say goodbye to him.

PaintedEgg · 11/07/2023 00:01

You're not stupid. Being a good hearted and loving person is a virtue, he's an idiot for not appreciating this

Let this guy go and you will meet someone who will deserve this love.

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