Sex I cannot feel a thing

[bigfatmom]

Difficult subject for me to broach but my problem is that Sex is just not enjoyable with my dp.

I simply cannot feel a thing. Cannot blame this on childbirth as was like this before.

Is it me or what.

Hi - you sound fed up - Do you mean you physically can't feel anything or emotionally ? Also how many children do you have and what are their ages ?

Do you and your DP get time to go out together - to be a couple instead of just parents?

Hi
Can't believe I have posted about this but anyway I mean physically.

I have one DS who is 7.

Hi
I take it you can feel him touching you but it doesn't arouse you ?

Don't know winniethewino.

Its always been like it but have always put up with it.

Sex does nothing for me with my dp at all.

Have you ever had good sex together ?

Is he the only man you've slept with? Have you enjoyed sex with other men? Don't wish to be really nosey but just wondering
if it shines any light on things.

are you on the pill? that doesn't help sometimes

IMHO it's not to do with size on either part. When you say sex, I guess you don't just mean penetrative sex? because when you say it does nothing for you, I take that to mean the whole foreplay, other ways of doing things... etc.

Probably about 4.

Mostly with woman on top that seems to offer more satisfaction than the missionary.

Not that much dropscone

He is the only man I have slept with nothing to compare to.

peachesMclean
Nothing really does it for me.

So do you mean no orgasms and nothing approaching it?

He does but me know.

Sorry spelling mistake should say no

Can't believe I have started this post

Is your dp aware of it? Can you together go on a mission to see if you can find something that does work? Have you tried having some wine/alcohol to make you especially relaxed (not drunk!)

Winnie, i'm getting the impression it's not the size of his cock or what he does with it that's the problem.

Does he do much in the way of foreplay? Can you encourage it? There are so many ways to have sex and for him to get you more relaxed. And some women do just naturally have a very low libido.

CarGirl

No he isn't aware of it I would not want to hurt his feelings.

winniethewino
I love and care for him but don't fancy him he doesn't do anything for me in that respect but he is a good person.