My five year relationship ended 2.5 years ago, it was totally unexpected for me, I was heartbroken and had to go for counselling. Recently, I went on a date, I did enjoy it, he's a nice guy, but the next morning I felt in my gut that I'm not ready for this or starting anything serious. Now, I'm over my ex, would never go back there, and thought it'd be nice to start getting back out there - until I did. Should I listen to my gut?