Ok partner has moved in.
They get up, sit in their chair, stick earbuds in and play on their phone all day, except when at work, they work a split shit, very early & then mid afternoon
If i speak to them i generally dont get a response unless i ask again louder
They huff and puff and make that stung in the mouth by a wasp face if i ever ask them to do anything
They only ever do things on their schedule, so if i need a hand now I have to scry with the crystal ball to ensure i give them enough time to get used to idea (lighthearted but i hope you get the idea)
Everything feels like its too much effort, i get "i suppose i better do x thing"
If they do help out i get a list if what they have done. I asked the other day if they wanted a gold star. I couldnt stop myself
What bothers me the most is the silence, i feel so so lonely, i cant remember the last time we had a full on conversation.
I did ask him to leave the other day. He said "sorry ... alright" i said, no its not ok. But he has made no movements to pack & go
My friend says its abusive? I am not sure. My friend also thinks i should pack his bags, get my keys and leave their stuff on the doorstep. I am a coward really
How can i get rid, quietly and avoid confrontation. I would rather sit in a comfortabld space on my own that an uncomfortable one with company