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Handover concerns

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xx200xx · 09/07/2023 20:14

Posting on a different thread as I need advice

So gonna try and make this short.

My son who is 1 has just started seeing his father and grandfather after a few months. The court order states 2 hours to start of with and moves up every 4 weeks.

My sons grandfather keeps making little comments that the reason my son is crying when I pick him up is because he's coming home to me. Today grandfather wrote that my son cry's every time he gets returned to mum in the handover book.

The reason for my son crying is because they put my 1 year old in the front of the car and my son loves the play around with the steering wheel, so when it's time to come to me he don't want to because he wants to play in the car. This is becoming a regular thing, that when it's pickup time they will put my son straight in the front of the car and then hand him over crying. I feel like it's purposely being done to make my son cry to make out he don't want to come with me. You would think they would stop putting him in the car knowing it causes distress.

I'm just really worried the courts will think that my som isnt happy coming home with me, as we are back in September to court to discuss overnight contact. But now im very worried that there gonna give childs father custody as childs father and grandfather are saying my child is upset to come back home to me???

Hope this makes sense

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