Not sure where to post this but just looking for some perspective really. I've been with my DP coming up to 2 years now and I can't shake a gut feeling I've had lately that he's messaging other women.
We live in different cities and see each other at least every other weekend sometimes more often if my DD wants to see him (I try and keep my weekends with her just me and her for bonding but do include him frequently so they can build a relationship). I have stuff at his house, have met his family lots and we often go out in the village where he lives so I don't think he would have other women at his house. We also message each other multiple times a day.
However, he is very secretive with his phone and laptop. I've never tried to look at them but often he will direct his phone away from my eyeline if we're laid in bed or stop looking at it when I enter the room etc. What really made me gut feeling go off the charts was when we were on his laptop and he went to have a shower, I said I'd carry on looking on the internet but he switched the user account over to mine. I'm not sure why he'd do that. He did have tabs open with Skype messages and that's the only thing I can think of that he didn't want me to see. Now he could just be naturally secretive and I was wondering is anyone else like this? There could be stuff that's not related to other women that he just might not want me to see. We have a really good relationship and I'm not sure why I started getting this gut feeling. I'm quite open with stuff and it wouldn't even occur to me to switch my laptop over to his account if we were already in mine.