Ex left me due to being pregnant and not wanting to be a dad, always told me he wanted to be together but couldn't for that reason as he wasn't ready, let me cut a very long story short he came into DDs life when she was 5 months old, we was going out as a family but we wasn't together, he confessed his love for me and said he wants to see where things go, this lad really did break me in the past leaving our daughter without a dad for a while and all through mg pregnancy, anyway, one thing led to another and after a few months of him seeing DD we started sleeping together, it was like old times and it felt like we was a little family and things was slightly good, yes I know I'm an idiot and should it never forgive him but I still loved him and he still loved me and it was nice for DD to have her dad, it was a long difference relationship so didn't see him much, I felt like he would turn when he went home it was like he wanted everything but without the relationship, he wanted us to go out on family days he wanted to sleep with me he wanted everything but not a full relationship, this would always confuse me and then I started to think is he using me for sex, this has gone on and then off again we have fell out and spoken again and he makes out like he absolutely hates me, like he will tell me he doesn't want nothing but just a few weeks ago he wanted me more than ever, what is this lad trying to do I am left very confused?