I’m recently single and looking to casually date against key here is the casual. I want basically to meet someone we can have a few drinks and then you know have some fun. I actually have matched with a number of people on a OLD site and met a great guy, we clicked so well great chemistry or so I thought. He was super keen at first messaging all the time, went on a date was great, had a kiss at the end and so much chemistry there. Again we messaged everyday cheeky messages, long and short ended up sleeping together, was a great night. Both said we wanted something regular but no commitment to each other. He’s coming out of a divorce and me a 10year sounded perfect. Since then he has dropped off the face of a cliff, said he wanted to meet up again but has a lot going on with divorce and custody etc I get it break ups are messy. Anyway I felt like he was making me feel too needy. I have deleted his number just so I can’t message again and said I’ll leave it with you, I’m not going to chase some guy for sex effectively (was mean to meet up this week) how do you keep things casual without feeling needy, tbh he’s made me feel a bit of a dick about the whole situation. I’m totally new back to this and just don’t know how to be navigating it.