My ex and I have a 5 year old and a contact court order in place. He was an abusive dick during our marriage and the divorce was one of nightmares. He has DD EOW and one day in the middle of the week. He steals my school uniforms and shoes and won’t return them and tells me to buy new ones. He won’t do homework with her to “spite” me and that means it’s done last minute and in one go because it has to be submitted the day after she’s back from his. This leaves her tired. How do I parent with him? No I can’t speak to him bc he calls me a cunt and tells me to fuck off. Do I complain to police re theft of uniforms? He has called the police on me before for not handing over her passport even though we have a court order saying he can’t have it. Now he’s acting out extra bad because CMS told him to pay CM.