Met a guy six months ago. It was a whirlwind for the first five months. He said he wanted to move in after a few months, and we were working towards it for later in the years
He I was a gift to him after a few painful years after his divorce. Said how enthused he was about our future together. He seemed so genuinely excited by me. And I usually have a good bullshit detector. But I let myself believe I had met someone finally.
No red flags. Family and friends met him - all loved him. He seemed so genuine and nice. We booked a holiday.
Then he ended it saying first of all that he was in a bit of a mess and needed to figure things out. Then when I pushed him he said he didn’t feel strongly about me. This has completely floored me. And I’m deeply heartbroken. Even more so than compared to my previous long term relationships ending.
Was he leading me on this whole time? He went through a painful break up / divorce a few years ago and seems to be never ending dating.
It felt real with him tho. I’m broken. How can I trust again. I thought he loved me and was so excited by me.