Just that really - I've got a 1 year old and a husband. He and I have been together since we were in high school and I don't feel like he's grown with me in terms of domestic life.
I work 4 days a week compressed- so full time hours split over 4 days. I have one day off and I spend it with our DC to save on childcare costs (astronomical!). Husband works a full time Mon-Fri job and he does work very hard. We split finances I'd say 60/40 - there are a few costs he picked up while I was on ML that he still covers (payments on new plumbing, the water bill and TV licence). I do the vast majority of the domestic chores (today he was complaining he's got no clean pants - not my problem?!) And also plan meals, do the shop and typically oay for the groceries.
Anyway I told husband tonight, and not for the first time that I feel really undervalued and under appreciated and that I'm not really willing or able to keep it all going. He told me he wasn't ready to talk about it and would do so when he's ready?
I dont even have the energy to be angry with him but I feel like if I had it in me I'd be furious about that. I see divorce on the horizon if he won't contribute and acknowledge me. Which is very sad.
Not really sure what I'm looking for here, just screaming into the void to try and offload.