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[poppydog23]

So my partner of 20 years has never posted me on his social media account (he went on social media 5yrs ago).
Whenever I meet someone he knows he always like me to look my best.
I have gained weight since having our two DC.
I would say I'm 12-14, his friend can over from Spain and he didn't invite him to our house to meet me.
He is a private person but can't help he feels embarrassed the way I look.

And is he Brad Pitt?

Have you never posted to his social media? Linked a picture of your family or something?

Was Mr Spanish friend defo a Mr? Not a miss?

In my experience, if you feel a man is deliberately keeping you off their social media...its usually because they want to appear single. Maybe because they're looking to date other women.

There's nothing wrong with your size. Especially after having 2 kids!

Is he never complimentary to you?
How is he as a partner otherwise?

@Pinkbonbon
Defo a man I can say 99.9% he isn't a cheat or wanting to be single.
No I never tag him as I don't feel great about myself.

He is fairly still good looking for his age.

Maybe it's just a case of you feeling insecure and projecting that then. You don't like you much rn so assume he isn't into you either?

Not that men can't go off us of course.

Have you talked about how you are feeling with him?

Is he generally a warm, supportive partner?

@Pinkbonbon

Yes I think you could be right, I do tend to overthink things.

We have both been through some close losses of our parents and our children can be really full on and that causes arguments between us.

I suppose relationships change over a period of time.

Thank you for responding to my post :)