Hi all , I'm new to this so I don't know how to use alot of the stuff 😅 .
Me and may partner have been together 8 years, expecting our 3rd child. The relationship has been quite abusive financially emotionally and mentally . Anyway , in 2021 I received compensation for a spinal frcature , I wanted to use the money to get a car and pass my test. As soon as my partner found out the amount he took full control of the car purchase and basically chose a car which completly went against what I had wanted . He insured it himself as I hadn't got my license yet and practically took it as his own.
Fast forward to now and the car has been deemed a total loss as someone went into the back of it.
My query is , I think my partner should give the payment back to me as I purchased the car and it was essentially supposed to be my vehicle (he has another vehicle which he chose not to drive). This way I can get a car I want and not have the issue of before where I'm left with no transport . My partner is completly not listening to this and says its his money as he was the one insuring the car (I understand that, but I just think it's completly unfair of him to assume its his money when he didn't but the vehicle in the first place)
This is just one thing after another and I'm reaching my breaking point , whenever I bring this up he gets angry and starts shouting . I just wanted other people's opinions and whether it is me that's being unreasonable or what .