Hi, I’m in my early forties….split up from my last ex BF a couple of years ago. He was cheating on me. I worked on myself, in a good place etc, can’t complain but still remain very much single. I already have a child from a previous marriage so all happy on that front too.
my ex BF got married, big house, baby etc in rapid time, I know I shouldn’t compare but my god for me it’s total slim pickings.
I’ve tried OLD for about 6 months and not had a single date or even many matches! And if I do get a match the chat is truly awful or they don’t even message!
i haven’t even had sex for a year now or even a kiss! (had a FWB a year and a bit ago)
I just can’t keep on with the online dating, it’s just an absolute total waste of time.
I’ve joined gym classes where lots of men go…they are all taken. I work in s heavily male dominated industry….all taken.
is the universe just trying to tell me to give up!???
I know o could just offer myself up for s f*k buddy and I’m sure I could get some sex but the whole point of me ending things with FWB was because I really missed dates and someone actually giving a f*k about me.
a year later….and nothing!!!!
sorry for the rant!!