What are yours, I'm interested.
So I've worked bloody hard on me, my life and getting to a place where I will not tolerate fuckery.
In the past I've been guilty of letting things slide, giving more than I've taken and reacting on emotion and ignoring my gut.
After 6 years of being single and working on this I've reached a point where I think I have firm boundaries and will not budge an inch on deal breakers.
I've started dating again, nothing serious just dipping my toe in and I'm definitely in the happy enough being single to compromise camp. But.....I do miss male company every now and then, so the radar is out there.
Friends say I reject potential matches for minor reasons or feeling that may not be valid, nice way of saying too picky lower the bar to a more reasonable level. I'm not prepared to do that so this isn't a post seeking validation, after having a few days chatting and really clicking with someone I declined a date and cut contact when one of my deal breakers reared its head today so I'm genuinely interested as to what you will not tolerate and what your deal breakers are (I'm not talking has to earn 50k plus).....