Split with abusive ex. He had contact with kids as and when. We moved 4 hours away. He was ment to move to the oppostie end of the country. So said it was fine for me to move. We visit that town roughly every 2-3 months. Still occasionally sees oldest (14) as she can tell me if anything happens. No contact for nearly a year with the youngest two. 5 and 3. Last contact he refused to give them back. Just to be a dick. Quit his job so he dosent have to pay maintenance.
He's now sent a solicitor letter asking for Friday from 4pm to Sunday 4pm. Issue is 5 year old dosent finish school till 3.30 then by the time we drive up it'll be bedtime. Also same Sunday they'll be knackered for school Monday.
I'm very scared he'll try to run off with the kids or something will happen. He's not a nice person.
There's a supervised contact centre an hour from us. Start from there? How would you do visitation?