Recently I have started seeing an ex from years ago he now has a child and I also have two children. His child is 4 and mine are a bit older at 8 and 13. It's been a bit of a whirlwind due to the history as we have no had the usual getting to know each other. At first he said he didn't want pressure to jump into anything as he didn't know how we would make our situation work. After a while he then suggested me meeting his child, him meeting mine and then them all meeting which all happened on his suggestion. This was about 8 weeks ago. Since then he has done a complete 180 and has only came round when my kids are in bed and has not suggested doing anything together. Unsure how to approach this with him as my youngest has asked when he will be round again and when they will play with his child again. Part of me is cautious about approaching it at all due to his initial no pressure comment but it really does feel like he's slammed the brakes on out of nowhere with no communication.