So I have been seeing a guy since November last year and if I'm being honest ... I'm mad about him. He's a bit younger than me and although I struggled with this at first, I soon realised it was not an issue. He has shown me more love and affection over these last 6 months than most of my previous long term partners have. It was a relationship where I felt safe and finally started to feel comfortable in my own skin. I genuinely believe he loved me too.
The only issue I have is that he continually prioritises time when his friends than with me. I have quite a busy life at present and any spare time I have I share with him. But there has now been a few occasions where he has let me down to go out with pals , forgot he had made plans with me, or cuts our time together short to go out with friends. Now I'm not expecting him to spend every spare minute with me (I like my own space too) but it's making me feel like second choice and that he doesn't value me as much . Every time this happens I just feel deflated and really put out by him.
Anyway ... it happened again today and I've realised I just can't keep going through this all the time . I'd rather just get on with life than constantly feel second best to his pals. It's just breaking my heart though cause we had a really good time otherwise.
I've said my peace to him, removed him from my social media and deleted his number. I just feel so sad though.
No real point in this thread other than have I done this right thing and will it get easier ?