My BF of 17 months and I hit a rocky patch.arguing over the same thing over and over. We've both been stressed and neither one of us handle it well. We've been doing OK this last week or 2. And then I decided that my 'gut feeling' that he was keeping something from me gave me carte blanche to go on to his tablet and check his messages. I found nothing incriminating. But I was honest and told him what I'd done. He was rightly furious, asked me to leave (we don't live together) and I snow nit speaking to me. I'm furious with myself that I even did that. I'm 40 and have never even felt compelled to do sk.ething like this. Not really looking for advice, just wanted to get it off my chest and don't really have anyone I can talk to.