My job has me scheduled to do an utterly grueling schedule that I never signed up for. It's pretty much a live in type of position for two weeks. Day and night, night and day. I have a room and a bed and my own supplies. It's pretty much full on from the moment I open my eyes in the morning. I do get a patch of time in the middle of the day. Then it's more work til I fall into bed at night time. The jobs and the chores is utterly endless. I find that I have to pick and choose between brushing my teeth, washing my face and going for a shower and meals are only quick and easy and choose between bedtime too. It's utterly gruelling. I never signed up for this. I was supposed to have a team of people to help me but my employer pulled a fast one and I am limited. I had to take the decision to make short cuts in my tasks otherwise I would never finish.
My partner knows my schedule and all I am getting is calls from him. He knows I am busy and he's treating me as if it's a walk in the park as if I can drop what I am doing to go running to his calls. I'm actually finding it intense and obsessive at this stage. Already this morning I heard three calls from him. I got back to home as soon as I got a chance. I find the night time calls are too much because I am on the go all day long and it's late and the night calls are just too much and too stressful too because my work is still not done or finished and sometimes I can hear my phone but I just can't drop what I am doing.
He knows I am busy these few weeks. He knows it and all he's doing is calling me. I am in a position in my work where I have to choose between a shower, food and sleep. Basic humane functions.