I’ve met someone on tinder and they seem really nice we went on a date for coffee on Tuesday and then went back to his place and just cuddled and watched tv which is bizarre I know but after they date which lasted 9 hours when I was leaving he said he would like to see me again. The day after the date I messaged him to say have a good day and thanks for the previous night he said he would like to meet up again but later he messaged to say he didn’t want a relationship at the minute as he was going through some grief following death and traumatic experiences which we did touch upon whilst on our date, but said that he liked me and fancied me. I’m confused about the situation and asked if he would like to get to know each other more maybe go for a walk next week and he said yeah he will confirm tomorrow when he gets his rota. Am I overthinking things here I get the feeling maybe he isn’t being honest and can’t tell me he doesn’t like me?