I don't think I'd be with my partner if I wasn't pregnant and didn't need to buy my house. He's just not what I want in a partner, seemingly bad with money (never has any) even though he's working. He says he has a lot of bills. Then he proceeds to moan about working nearly every day and having to work overtime to make this money. Every second day something is getting him down and he "needs" a drink after work after such a hard day. He's hardly ever encouraging and helpful around the house.
But, I feel like I have no other choice because I'm currently trying to buy my mum out of the house I'm living in as she wants her 50% and if not then she said we're to sell the house altogether and I can't afford to buy it alone as my wage is less and I have two children. I feel like he has no understanding of keeping a home, caring and organising two children, working and everything else.
The house I'm trying to buy is my Grandparents so its really special to me and I don't want to lose it. Secondly, I don't want to be a single parent to three children. I'm disappointed in myself for getting pregnant and making this mistake and I feel like if I tell my mum I'm not happy in the relationship she won't care because she wants her money. If I was to approach him about this then he tells me all of my faults and it ends up in an arguments. I feel really stuck.