I've name changed for this post.
This happened around 20 years ago but I still think about it often and am undecided whether this was just a one night stand or something else. I've also experienced sexual abuse so I'm not sure if I'm minimising or overreacting to this!
The simple version is that, when I was 18, I went on a night out with some friends. Whilst out, I bumped into a group of men from my Saturday job who were mid-late 20s. We drank lots and I went back to their hotel and had sex with one of them.
However, the longer version is that during the night they bought me lots of drinks and I was so drunk that I can't remember going back to the hotel. The man I slept with was in his late 20s & a senior manager at work. I'd never liked him in that way at all before. I can't remember having sex with him as I was so drunk and afterwards the other men in the group opened the bedroom door, mocked me, took the sheets off the bed I was on and took photos of me naked.
We didnt use a condom and I was really annoyed at myself afterwards as I was really adamant that I would never sleep with someone without one (I'd only slept with one person before this). The next morning I took the MAP which didn't work & resulted in a pregnancy.
A short while afterwards, I found out from one of the group that they had taken bets about who would sleep with me, deliberately found me on the night out after hearing my plans, planned to get me drunk, take photos etc to annoy another member of staff who had spoken about me in a protective way. The photos were taken to show him what had happened.
As an adult, I can appreciate how young I was and how morally it was very wrong. However, I feel like I was responsible for getting myself into the situation and it's quite a grey area. I've always referred to it as a one night stand if anyone has mentioned it.