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Partner and her ex

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Stevemad · 17/06/2023 22:42

So my partner and I had a fall out tonight. She said “jokingly” she while getting ready am I only good to her and do things for her to prevent her from straying elsewhere and that she could hook up with someone tonight on a night out with her friends if she wanted to. I’m at home by the way dropping her off and picking her up in the early hours. I “jokingly” replied with be a big mistake if you do, it’d be your loss, you’ll never find a man who would do anything for you and love you like I do. To which I got a fuck you, there will be loads of guys who want me tonight, like my ex, they’re in the same friendship group. My question is, did she want a bust up before she went out cos her ex was there, she’s told me many times she hates him and only speaks to him not to upset the group and she’s never entertain the idea of being with him. She the type that matter what either of us say or do, I always end being the one to apologise because she’s always right. Now this, this was unexpected. Thoughts please. Thank you all

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Maloneyb · 17/06/2023 23:40

This is so so so disrespectful.
im sorry she’s so awful to you.

doesn’t matter what you fall out over, if your response is that you’re amazing and others want you.. you’re a d*.

You deserve better.

Stevemad · 17/06/2023 23:50

Thanks Maloneyb

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Aquamarine1029 · 18/06/2023 00:00

Your girlfriend is a game-playing twat and I wouldn't trust her any further than I could throw her. Dump and run, you can do so much better.

Chatillon · 18/06/2023 00:17

She sounds a little evil. There are better women out there.

XVII · 18/06/2023 00:26

She’s a complete arsehole
dump and run. People who say they can get up to all sorts probably do
dont be a mug

Stevemad · 18/06/2023 00:34

Really difficult to hear everyone. Thanks for your input. Need to make some decisions I think. So tough, I love her so much I don’t know what to do really!!

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Aquamarine1029 · 18/06/2023 00:48

Stevemad · 18/06/2023 00:34

Really difficult to hear everyone. Thanks for your input. Need to make some decisions I think. So tough, I love her so much I don’t know what to do really!!

It's quite sad that you love someone who speaks to you like that.

loveacuddle1 · 18/06/2023 02:21

I’m a woman and would never speak to a partner like this - completely disrespectful, and rude!

Maloneyb · 18/06/2023 03:43

Stevemad · 18/06/2023 00:34

Really difficult to hear everyone. Thanks for your input. Need to make some decisions I think. So tough, I love her so much I don’t know what to do really!!

You may love her so much but can you really be with someone who doesn’t love you the same?
so much disrespect and game playing.
she thinks you’ll never leave, that’s why she think she can get away with what she’s saying to you.
hope you find some strength to put yourself first

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