Long story but here is the short version
was with ex for 20 years , 2 primary school aged children and a morgage.
Life got in the way of “us” and he ended the relationship after a particularly hard 6 months. I thought that we could get back on track but he didn’t want to try.
He had a new gf after a week and has introduced her to the kids. They have only recently found out about us splitting up and he has only known her 3 months. I was not happy at this.
they are now playing happy families doing all of the things I wanted to do as a family. When does this become easier to deal with emotionally? I am really struggling with the kids doing “family things” without me