We used to be connected via marriage but that was years ago. We were friends but I’ve realised over time that we have very little in common and she’s not a good friend. She’s cancelled on me at the last minute so many times over the years that I’ve lost count, and I know she does this to everyone in her life.
I’ve tried distancing myself from her for over a year now. Telling her I’m too busy to meet up, answering messages politely but bluntly without asking questions, never messaging first, sometimes even ignoring messages.
I’ve never ghosted someone before in my life but she can be very aggressive and goes from one drama to the next, so I know having an honest and direct conversation about why I no longer don’t want to be friends will result in a huge drama. She’s put details of so many fall outs with other people on social media in the past. I’ve been ghosted myself so I know how hurtful it is, but I don’t feel I have any other choice.
We no longer have any mutual friends because she’s fallen out with them all. I’d never keep pursuing a relationship with someone who so clearly doesn’t want one with me. I just wish she’d leave me alone and stop contacting me. Has anyone else been through this?