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Harassment put in fear of violence

8 replies

Crashingpinapples · 14/06/2023 13:17

Does anyone know much about this? Clares law disclosure about now ex. Should I be concerned?

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Pandorasboxofchocolates · 14/06/2023 19:31

Can you give some more info pls? Do you mean the police disclosed to you that your ex has a history of abuse? What is the situation now, is he still in touch with you? Were the police supportive? I’m not very familiar with the process but have read online about it.

Pandorasboxofchocolates · 14/06/2023 19:34

I’m sorry you are going through this, I meant to say earlier 💐

Zola1 · 14/06/2023 19:40

How much does it matter if he's an ex?
It could cover lots of different behaviours but is suggestive of maybe not accepting the end of a relationship, repeat calls and threatening messages, maybe waiting around for partner etc

Crashingpinapples · 14/06/2023 22:33

Yes he has a history according to police. Its why I broke up with him. He was acting really odd with me (possessive, trying to make me jealous then saying it was my anxiety). I sought mental health help who flagged concerns with his behaviour so I put in the clares law and he has form with other partners. He admitted he has an impending prosecution but the police have lied. I have left because I feel worried about it all. He could be the sweetest, kindest and most supportive person sometimes but sometimes he could be very weird.

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Doggymummar · 14/06/2023 22:35

Well done for leaving xx

Findyourneutralspace · 14/06/2023 22:37

It’s basically making threats which were concerning enough for someone to report him. You’re right to have stepped away. Well done on making that move.

Crashingpinapples · 16/06/2023 19:07

Should i be concerned he could do similar to me? I'm so worried he might just turn up to my home or work and police said he was violent with his last ex I feel really worried.

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Infusionist · 16/06/2023 19:14

No one here can tell you about risks, but I’d call Women’s Aid who will be able to help.

well done on keeping yourself safe!

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