Im self employed, have 3 children work 6 days a week sometimes 7 and work between 34-40 hours a week.
Husband works long hours, does little to nothing in the house.
I do the food shop cooking, housework and 90 percent child care.
I feel really upset and annoyed atm.
I went to buy some badly needed running trainers today, got them on sale and bought my eldest a football strip that was half price as a well done présent for getting into his school of choice. Anyway husband was really annoyed I’d bought myself the trainers and the football strip. Our finances are kept separate. He earns a lot more than me.
He started banging on about how he can’t afford to buy new trainers. I work hard and barely get myself anything.
He then had a go at me at dinner, I’m so embarrassed the boys were there and I’m sure the neighbours heard. He told me out of the blue that I could go off with a certain man that we know! That I could go and sleep in his bed then he told the boys they were going to have a New dad!!!!!! I’m faithful always have been so I have no idea why he would be so cruel in font of my boys.
He then starts going on about something and I told him he was behaving like a baby he told me to shut the f up.
when I was very sick a few weeks ago he covered the food shop for 2 weeks which I would normally pay for he’s demanding the money back for it. When I reminded him that he took 2,700 pounds my mother gifted to me he replied well you weren’t working. ( I was a sahm joint decision)!
i went out for a good run got home and sat outside my eldest who is 16 came to say goodnight and said maybe you should sleep downstairs as is dad is angry with you. I went fo a shower and went in to bed he’s watching tv sand he says you’re coming here to piss me off. I replied he was being agressive and I wanted to sleep. He told me to be quiet he didn’t want to talk to me and I’ve come downstairs to chill. So sorry for the long post thanks for reading feels good to get it off my chest!