Ive come home to a filthy house after working a 7 day week. Husband and kids out all day at a friends house. We’ve tried chore list and he never does it so today I lost my temper and told him as of tomorrow he will be in charge of his own washing as I don’t agave Time or the want to do it as he treats me like a skivvy !!!!
he then tells me if that’s the case I’ll need to start paying half the rent etc and not to play that game as I’ll lose !!!! . I work full time do all childcare household chores food shop and cooking. He earns more than I do and all my money goes on bills etc and the children.
I feel like such an idiot I’m working more as it’s his 40th and I’m planning a trip to Venise and then a big surprise party with his family and friends !!!!
for my 40rh he did the opposite of what I asked for and I didn’t get a present !!!!