Messy house

[Samantha41]

I worked all weekend including till 1 this morning then up at 8 to work 4 hours. Come home and the house is messy, dog hair all over the floor and general mess!!! I’m so angry I get one afternoon off a week and would like to relax in a semi clean house. Husband is out at a friends for lunch !!!!!! I’m so tired of his sloppy ways so I’ve decided he can do his own washing from now on until he stops treating me like a maid !!!!

I'd be every bit as upset as you are, op. You need to lay down some ultimatums because your relationship won't be able to survive the resentment that's building up. You are not his fucking skivvy. Do you have children?

Yes 3 16, 12 and 7 plus eldest son has his gf over all weekend so no reason they couldn’t all pitch in.
i asked husband to clean the bathroom he cleaned the shower and sink didnt bother with the mirror bath or floor I’m so sick of it !!!!
plus he has 3 piles of clothes lying all around the bedroom !!!

I think they were conversations to have a very long time ago and it'll be difficult to get him to change his standards now.
My clean and DH's clean are two very different things. We do equal chores but I do the bits I know he won't do to my level.
Those kids are also old enough to help too.